Typhoon My brothers wedding, Iām hoping they cancel it. He only wants the presents. Heās been married before and lives with this one now. Why bother
Maybe it's a thing up here vs down there but I have been to numerous 2nd weddings and all have stipulated NO GIFTS. Some have asked if you want to make a donation to the church or name a charity
I think one reason they do so is because people have already given the first time around and they don't want to place that burden and probably because people might just say FU, how many times are you going to do this.
The other thing is they tend to be very small weddings with just close family and friends maybe 30-60 people although one was 300 but it was her first marriage and his 2nd and she was Italian.
It's your brother so you cannot IMO, not go but if you shelled out for a big/expensive gift the forst time he got hitched, I would have no qualms about giving a big nothing this time around