Traveling is a pain, and I used to feel like you do, but I have come around to minimizing it in my mind and appreciation the good parts of travel more.
Two consecutive Octobers I have flown to Missouri to play golf at the Big Cedar courses. Totally worth it. I would fly to California tomorrow if I could play Pebble Beach again.
In 2022 I went to italy, in 2023 to Japan, and in 2024 to Italy again. Yes, the travel was brutal, especially to Japan, but these were experiences that can't be taken away from me, and I am glad that I took the opportunities.