Anything you wish to talk about that really happened in your life

Release · 2017-02-22T14:18:58+00:00

Something happened recently at work , with a client I ran into and ran off from, I started to think of my own life. The choices I had made, how different it...

mcavoy

ummm.....no thanks! lol

Weirfan

This one time, at band camp 🙂

But seriously, be comfortable with your decisions, live your own life dont judge or measure your situation against others, especially finances.

The most important things in life are family and friends, sounds like you are wealthy in that regard.

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Weirfan

Yes I am lucky in that regard.

Not without challenges over the years.... as all marriage would have it. Kids are fine at this point, seemed to be ahead of their peer in every respect , without us pushing them. All the guidance and pushing were done between 3-7, now they are on track to be what they like to be. We just need to provide the support to get them there.
It's just getting harder to meet the obligation each time. Not complaining, plugging along and trying to keep up with the rising cost of living. While all the time more competition for everything .

Release

"- Attitude is the one place an older golfer has an advantage. By age of 50, a golfer has perspective and wisdom that should give him a formidable mental game ." -Raymond Floyd-

ZWExton

"Am I happy with what I've done?" is not a question that should be answered by looking at the lives of others.

I'm only 28, but I already don't give a F what other people are doing. Life is short. I spend as much time with my wife as I can, I play a little golf, I can comfortably afford the things I like and my home. We're happy, and secure. There are paths to more money and more this or that, but I just don't care. I love my life. I don't deserve it, but it's mine and I love it.

PA-PLAYA

I might look back and regret some things, like wishing I'd spent more time with my kids while they were growing up. But then too I don't know any parent that I'm friends with who doesn't have similar regrets.

I make it a point to look forward, not backward, with most other things. I have a great wife, two wonderful kids, and I live a comfortable life. Not much else to regret really. I've definitely been blessed. Compared to a lot of people, I'm living a dream life.

Hard for me to be anything other than grateful for the life I live, the family I have, and the friends who've made my life infinitely sweeter.

Typhoon

Shit I have no control over in my life amazes me. I wonder how I made it through those times.

I think of the title of this thread being more about a tragedy, or an event in your life that changed things forever for you. Not things I regret doing, how I am financially etc... That's why I said life changing things that have happened that I can't believe I/wife and kids were lucky to get through.

livegolf

Good topic, I go through cycles every couple of years where I get frustrated with where I'm at in life. Personally, I'm quite content.

Financially, paying bills just to live is aggravating to me and I have no desire to work until I'm 65. I wish I had that entrepreneurial spirit! I've got friends who start their own businesses, change industries, and I'm impressed. I've started to focus hard on my financial future recently and I'm excited with the investment opportunity over the upcoming years with the Internet of Things and the flood of states legalizing cannabis. I never paid attention to trends previously and now read through my 401k and IRA statements in quite a bit of detail.

Still, I wish I went into a higher paying career so I'd have a better chance of retiring early. No guarantees though as a health issue is all it takes to wipe out everything.

I don't think there is anything wrong being unhappy with your life as long as you are taking steps to better your situation. Realizing something needs to change is the first step.

Release

Our auto insurance premium notice arrived and up another $260 from last year, I guess it is because we replaced a windshield ( with $250 deductible ).
Time for shopping, again.
I mean, we pay more than $1500 annually plus $400 for the umbrella for 3 vehicles ( older model ). Obviously they are not happy of what they makes. Never a claim until the windshield had a crack ( hit by a fallen leaf with wind gust to 50+ MPH )
I'll start calling around to see if anyone out there would have better pricing for the same coverage.

ZWExton

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Try eSurance. I can't believe how inexpensive it was when I switched to them last year, and it dropped another $80 this year. I work in insurance, so I am not buying a crap policy.

Every company has a different "sweet spot" for pricing, but you can get an eSurance quote online in about 5 minutes. Worth a shot.

LBlack14

Where do I start? 😁

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ZWExton

eSurance basically is a site where all the insurance company competes for your business.
An auction house if you would.

I got my current insurance policy through the eSurance, the rate was good for a few year until we made a claim to replace the windshield. Then the 18% hike came immediately.

I want to compare apple to apple instead of being flooded with emails and phone calls . So this time I will select a few carrier and let them have my current coverage to compare their rate.

sdandrea1

Like many, I have been through some difficult times, but I try not to look back. I feel like the most blessed man on the planet, never dreaming that my life would turn out like this. I used to look at those who were "ahead" of me with some jealousy/regret, but I just kept my head down and focused on what I could achieve. We are all fortunate in some way or another - I focus on my blessings and not what I didn't get or don't have. All of our parents are gone and I was glad SWMBO and I had time to enjoy them in their senior years. Our kids and grandkids are treasures and we spend a LOT of time with them. Life is truly good when you appreciate what you have and don't regret what you don't have or didn't do.

glebert

I can definitely relate to this. I was laid off last year after 15 years with a huge tech company. It was really frustrating to me to see the people who were absolutely awful at their jobs (but good at "looking important") keep their jobs or get promoted and many who were doing our best and being effective get kicked to the curb. Luckily for me there was a generous severance package and my wife, who had been homeschooling our kids, was able to get a job (ironically with that same tech company). So now I do the homeschooling and do guitar amp repair on the side. I'm pretty happy (and lucky) how things have turned out. I am proud of how i conducted myself on the job and would not trade places with the suck-ups for anything.

livegolf

glebert

Good story!

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glebert

I know.

So many seated at the top management level had no business being there. They don't have the technical know-how, and they could not manage their own family if they try, but copy those procedures from a book or lecture to blindly implement the " new and better way " of doing things. Even when there is no need to change anything, they'd look "busy" by interrupting other's life and work.
Sigh !
I know someone once said, don't need to know everything about any product or service to sell it. B.S. and that's what it really is. The root of all problem.

Typhoon

Release

Good God I can relate to this. Been at my job 15 years. Nothing has changed in the goal...deliver a product on the truck to a customer.

We have now complicated it SO much by people that are trying to justify their jobs that we will all be out of work.

kenner

Wish I'd have stayed active with the drums. Went through a period of almost 50 years away from it, and now I have to be content with occasional sit-ins with friends. This is me last night.