It sounds like you're in a tough spot—golf brings you joy, but the physical toll is hard to ignore. It’s good that you’re open to adjustments, like swinging easier, to see if you can keep playing without the pain. A lot of golfers face similar struggles, especially as the body starts pushing back.
Have you looked into equipment changes that could reduce strain? Lighter shafts, more forgiving clubs, or even a putter with better ergonomics might help. Also, mobility work, physical therapy, or even small swing tweaks could make a difference.
If traveling excites you, that could be a great alternative or even a way to mix golf with new experiences—playing scenic courses around the world at a more relaxed pace.
Curious to hear how the easy-swing experiment goes. Hopefully, it lets you stay in the game without sacrificing your well-being!