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Why? Why come on here if your only purpose is to stir shit?
Just came home from visiting my father who is dying of cancer. Within hours of arriving home, learned that a dear friend and golf buddy's son committed suicide over the weekend because of an alcohol/drug addiction he couldn't sort through over the past few years.
It touches home. All of it.
We're all here for only a short period of time. Why not try to make someone's life happier and more pleasant, whether it's in real-life or the anonymity of an internet message board? Doesn't mean you can't disagree... doesn't mean you're not entitled to your opinion on various topics. But why the need to be the bane of someone else's existence?
You have no idea who's life you can touch positively by simply being understanding and cordial, even when it seems most challenging to do so, even if it's just a kind word (or simply biting your tongue on an issue you don't agree with that invokes a deep hatred of a belief system contrary to yours).
Life is too short to be bitter and antagonistic all of the time.
You're above this. I know that you're better than this.