candukid you mean do I get any fringe benefits?? Or her??? She gets them, because i can do damn near anything I set my mind to. Me, I have a very dear friend, who knows I want a future with her. If that future happens, fine, if it doesn't, we'll I have a very dear friend. I do get a few small meals out of the deal... yesterday she made me a tuna sandwich, and shared some of the dinner she made for her son and herself.
Granted, I did go home and eat more afterwards.
More than that? Not at this time, which is fine by me, I want to build something that will last the rest of my life with her. Not something for the next few months or years. I want my forever person!!
