Infidelity ..... WTF !

Release · 2017-02-16T21:09:35+00:00

Just learned from the media that there are these variety besides the traditional cheating. I always thought infidelity means cheating with another person b...

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ode

I was very cautious, that's why I did not get married until I was 40. I'm glade I waited, because I would not be a good husband and good father had I got married earlier, but that is just me. Others had done well got married right out of school.

FauxAmish

ode

Exactly ... The media of the infidelity does not matter one iota.

The intent is all that matters.

Been on the receiving end.

kelco9

So, when I'm buying all these golf clubs without my wife's knowledge, what kind of infidelity is that?

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kelco9

Golf widow ?

And you should know never spend on the golf stuff unless your wife spend even more on shoes and such.

johnnyjava

All I know is that if you do something that you can't tell your partner about, 99 times out of 100 you're doing the wrong thing.

kelco9

Well, Release, I would lose out on that one. I happen to be married to one of the few women who has absolutely no interest in shoes (or buying anything else, for that matter). Now, if I could be married to my SIL who owns 200 pairs of expensive shoes, I would be buying golf crap like crazy!

And thanks, johnnyjava, for leaving that 1% leeway. I'll take it! I have decided that I am that 1 out of 100. Besides, the clubs are already in the mail. 🙂 But now that I think about it, I might have to be the 2 out of 200 since I have two different shipments coming. Sigh.

The rest of you 198 who bought clubs behind your wife's back should be ashamed of yourselves!

LBlack14

I've about got to the point that I don't give a fuck anymore.

raggmann54

LBlack14 I'm all of F**K's to give but I do have 1 Rat's Ass left if you need it...

MidwayJ

I know a guy whose wife tightly controls the money. She put him on a strict allowance. Meanwhile, she spends a lot of money redecorating their house and replacing furniture, etc. Their house always looks very nice, but he has no say in the constant changes and upgrades. She sees no issue since it's THEIR house, not hers. A new putter would be selfish because it's only for HIM. He is needs to hide some money from her. 😊

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MidwayJ

Still married ? Maybe because she came with a large sum of dowry, or she is the bread winner of the family.
Or maybe she looks like Miss U.S.A......... otherwise it's hard to keep it together for long.

MidwayJ

Release They have been married a long time. She might make more money than him but it's probably close. He has a good job. It is just funny that she worries about him spending too much on lunch, while it's obvious some serious funds are being spent on that house.

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MidwayJ

People have different priority in life.....

I remembered once when my kids were young, wife was complaining about my golf expenditure and time away from them. My kids said to my wife " but Mom, Dad's only hobby is golf , why couldn't he go play golf in the morning then we could go out together in the afternoon". My angels .

There is no right or wrong in your example. I would like to discipline myself instead of someone else tightening my wallet for me, or worse, given an allowance. Personally, I will not be in that situation for long , having someone telling me how much I should spend and where to spend it. But every tea cup and a tea pot..... if they are happy.