Typhoon The only place I feel safe speaking is at the golf course....mostly old and older farts like me lol. Work is ok since we only have a few youngsters and I am one of the managers so maybe they wouldn't correct me any way. I play golf regularly with my friend's son who is 24, but like my 25 year old daughter he doesn't seem to care about gender neutrality or any of that. They are better/quicker at using they/them though....young agile minds I guess.
Hanging out with my youngest is another story. It's better now they they are out of high school though. Then her friends all changed their names....which was hard since I didn't know half their names any way...but then I couldn't use their given name at our house, but also couldn't use their new name if their parents were around because they wouldn't tell their parents they were gay or whatever....it's 2020's does anyone really care if their kid is gay?
And I'm only 58 so I'm a LOT younger than you even though I'm in way worse shape 🤣