fatshot Sounds like you need some real "people skills" in dealing with interpersonal relationships. Don't know if
I could handle that or not...!!! Do you ever wear a striped referee's shirt and whistle??
Spent most of my worklife teaching, coaching, leading, supervising, tolerating, influencing, people. The Navy has a pretty extensive mediator training program to learn the process, but it takes the people skills to be effective. I don’t wear the zebra stripes but I am a referee of a sort.