Provisional
I was on a 4-day pass from Ft. Benning, Ga to my folks house when I learned that I was allergic. Ate at a Red Lobster in Knoxville and ended up having to go back home because of my allergic reaction (the french fries were fried in the same grease as the shrimp).
That was back in '90.
Several times per year we go to a Japanese Hibachi (which I love) with the fried rice, veggies, etc... I make sure to tell the head chef I have a shellfish/seafood allergy and he just simply makes my meal first before all the rest (if they have seafood).
I tried crab cakes once, loved them.... almost died afterward. lol
but this was before I realized I had an allergic reaction.
I guess there are worse things to be allergic to, but damn... seafood/lobster seems a bit extreme, especially given my appreciation of crab cakes.