ode we have had your senario play out here, where I live and you/I know damn well that that kid was pounding his chest to his buddies (fact).... until it went "wrong". Is it right? hell no, but I doubt the majority of teen boys/men would see it as such.... until it went wrong. Men/boys are different than women/girls. It's an apples and oranges comparison and you know it. The man would be locked up for a long time, the woman, not so much. That's the fact as it has happened. I have a 13 yr old in this school system and it scares the hell out of me. That dude would die if I had the opportunity, most would pat the boy/man on the back and say "atta boy!".
I would tell you about a plot between 3 girls against my daughter that got her an in school suspension at the ripe old age of 10, but you probably can't comprehend. I backed my daughter 100% and just in the past couple weeks, the 3 came clean that it was all made up. I want to go to the school and beat the hell outta the asst principal, but my wife wants me to let it go. Young bitches can be and are EVIL. These girls live within stone's throw and I want to confront the parents of the 1 child who concocted the story, but once again, I have to live here for now. I want to choke out a 43 yr old mother AND a 13 yr old girl. Call me what you will. I have and still see the change it's caused in my daughter and because I don't fuck these people up, I feel I have failed my child. I hate myself for this and always will.