Everyone has their own internal clock/pace. It shows in your walk, talk, golf swing, work style, etc. I like to get shit done (right) and move on. Diddling and fiddling irritates me. When I play golf, I'm courteous and follow whatever protocol my group wants, and have no problem adjusting to the pace of the group.
Most of my buds are ready golf guys. If someone is dreadfully slow and won't make an effort to be reasonable, I just avoid playing with them.