Wedge shafts majority of rec. players don't get. The are playing the majority of the time lower spinning shots than rec. golfers play with good urethane. Go to a tour event and watch the height of their average shots they are much lower than most rec. golfers. That's the difference. They use stiffer tipped shafts with some give to use these variables. Watch and learn.
It's more about the technique than equipment again!
Rec. golfers think equipment is going to save them. I don't think so.