KCee You must play with some real a-holes if you have to take 4 putts 😉
I actually haven't 4 putted in recent memory, but my recent memory only goes back to this morning. I do think I'd recall a 4 -putt tho.
I have the opposite problem. We always play 4-man teams and I'm typically the captain (A B C D players). We have a few guys that are WAY too generous with gimmees and additionally will violate our rule that gimmees are forbidden if that putt earns a game point. We only allowed gimmies to speed up play -when a player is out of the hole, his putt is good unless he wants to putt out. I've had to "remind" our guys on the rules. Problem is solved now. 2023, NO GIMMIES. Putt em all out.