Rickochet my grandmother-in-law is amazing, when sheās done, which is usually 20 mins or so after dinner, she announces āIām going homeā, sheās gone like Eleanor, 60 seconds and sheās on the road. That opens the flood gates and itās down to the people you would normally hang around with. If nothing else, I vow to be like that woman when I go to my kidās house in the later years. You have to be careful when you chose to take a whiz if you want to say goodbye to her lol, she will just exit any function when she damn well pleases, I love her for it.