Rickochet my grandmother-in-law is amazing, when she’s done, which is usually 20 mins or so after dinner, she announces “I’m going home”, she’s gone like Eleanor, 60 seconds and she’s on the road. That opens the flood gates and it’s down to the people you would normally hang around with. If nothing else, I vow to be like that woman when I go to my kid’s house in the later years. You have to be careful when you chose to take a whiz if you want to say goodbye to her lol, she will just exit any function when she damn well pleases, I love her for it.