Subsonic Focus on having a good time and just move the ball forward with every swing. The rest will take care of itself.
I just told a co-worker the same thing. He mentioned that he thinks it is a game that takes a LOT of time to get good at. I told him to enjoy the time outside with family or friends, or meeting new people. Practice a little so you can get specific things engrained and don't stress out or get angry when you mess something up.