sdandrea1 Well I checked the swingweight on the irons. They're C9. The shaft weight is marked as 46g, and I do not know what the head weights are and do not know what the counter balance grip plugs weigh
I was thinking about you when I was looking at my Golfers Warehouse flyer that came. I was thinking about Ping ladies clubs. This years is a combo set. I know you tall so if you were able to get them OR the heads and do a custom build.
You should be able to google enough or even email XXIO customer service and find out headweights and counterbalance weights. You know the shaft weight. Can you look up the grip and find out the weight? Get a shaft that weight and the grip and then add lead tape until you get the same balance point and then work on your counterbalance solution. If you figure out that end, then you'l know the headweight.
Try to get the specs too from Ping. I think with your brain and ability you could build a set of ladies Ping heads on a proper shaft for yourself and have the same set as a XXIO. It'll just take some searching but it might be a fun project.