professor All the "experts" here know what humiliation on one of the greatest stages feels like. I so wish I had those skills - to be so aware of another's thoughts and feelings...
Apparently you are more skilled than us 'experts'.
You have no clue as to what any of us has gone through, lost, or achieved, in our lives, except for what we might have posted here in this forum.
Then again, you do have the training for the insight, so I applaud that.
Even though you still know nothing about any of us. And are always 'assuming'.....as an 'expert' might do.😉