I have no interest what people do with me after I die. I am absolutely serious when I say that! They could put me out with the garbage and I would have NO problem with it. Since this might be frowned on, cremate me and do with my ashes whatever makes you feel good. The garden, golf course, or garbage are all equally fine with me. Along the same lines, I REALLY don't want a funeral, but if you need to have one as part of your grieving process, fill your boots.

I would love, Love, LOVE if my wife and/or friends would take about $10K (or whatever is needed) from my estate and have one GREAT party: great food and booze (a few good bottles of Scotch must be there to toast with), fun music, and a LOT of laughter and fun. I've already told my wife that's what I want, and she's agreed to do it. I would be particularly pleased if they could find a way to prop me up in a chair in the corner, dressed in a really loud shirt, sunglasses, hat, and a glass of Scotch in my hand! I'd love it. The fact that I wasn't dancing would be totally in character, so no one would know I was "gone." But the fact that I nursed one glass of Scotch all night would be a complete giveaway that something was up.

    kelco9 I would be particularly pleased if they could find a way to prop me up in a chair in the corner, dressed in a really loud shirt, sunglasses, hat, and a glass of Scotch in my hand! I'd love it.

    Evidently this is becoming a thing in some places